U recommended visiting their home and meeting family friends, to make sure all is as he or she says I did not, as I trusted him implicitly, prob because he had an offer accepted and paid a booking deposit on a house in Castlebar for us to live in. HE was retiring from Management Job, after 40years in HSE the Irish version of NHS, and he was on Google and LinkedIn so I assumed he was perfect for me, Until a knock came to my door and a woman told me she was his wife of 35yrs still living in same house. He had said he had a Cranky Lodger and preferred not let her kno his private business So please do follow all advice given by Katharine and her Team