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Welcome back

We’d love to WELCOME you back!

When you joined us previously your membership was for a minimum of one year.

So many of our members have met their soulmate because of this requirement!

We’ve only ever wanted committed members – people like you who were commited to finding their soulmate.

NOW HOWEVER…

having already demonstrated your commitment….
and as we haven’t heard you’ve met someone…
and as we absolutely believe you could still meet someone through us,
I have a very attractive OFFER for you.

Here’s our OFFER for you… 

This is a new membership we’re offering for a limited trial period.

Let me explain more.

Here’s what you’ll get for £59 a month:

 

  • a set of profiles every month
  • a review of your profile (to bring it up to date)
  • a review of your photographs with the option to change them
  • access to all our telephone support (both reactive and proactive)
  • an invitation to book a 15 minute dating coaching call
  • priority access to all our events (you’ll hear about them before people that are no longer members)
  • the choice of receiving other members profiles by post or through our amazing members only app
  • access to our app – even after your membership has ended so you can always contact people whose profiles we’ve sent      you
  • our Cloudnine magazine.

Here’s what Gary said who met Esther through us in October 2020

“I joined Friends first looking for a special lady, best friend and life partner, hopefully leading to marriage after a successful courtship. I was very fortunate (quicker than expected) to start talking to someone special who was committed to finding future husband, called Esther within the first few weeks. We met after talking by text and phone for about 3-4 weeks and exchanged photos of each other. We are now together all the time after we found we really got on very well together and we are engaged to be married. We are planning our life and future together now. We really care for each other and Friendsfirst was the way we found one another. We would never easily have met in separate nearby towns without Friendsfirst. The new app at the time had just started and was a good way to start chatting. Then we moved to other social media as things developed more seriously. Thanks so much Friends 1st for the friendship and support.”

Note from Katharine Gray – Founder and Director

Katharine gray round image in garden

DON’T GET FOOLED BY THE COMMON MISCONCEPTION

 

Dating is NOT just a numbers game.

Numbers are important but there are other factors that are far more important.

Here are just a few factors that are critical for dating success (which ALL of our successful couples have displayed):

      • Seeking for CHARACTER first.
      • Seeing DEEPER – not judging people instantaneously.
      • Developing and enhancing relevant SKILLS.
      • Perservering – even when it’s tough.

These are the things we hope to instil in our members and when the ‘penny drops’ then that’s when you will find your soulmate.

So this offer is for you if:

  • you’re still committed to finding your soulmate
  • you aren’t just interested in numbers because you recognise that dating is more complex than that (after all if numbers were all it took, everyone on the mass sites like match.com would be married by now – because there’s seemingly no limit to choice on sites like that is there?)
  • you want the confidence of knowing our members are all verified, genuine Christians
  • you know the value of having a membership team you can speak to for advice, guidance, and support if and when you need it (and even if you think you don’t need it, you acknowledge that if we’ve helped 100s of other people to successfully find their soulmate, maybe just one of our nuggets might help you!)

Here’s what Nina said who met Steve in November 2020 and married on 14th July 2021

“I wanted to invest in myself, my future and find someone to spend the rest of my life with. I wanted an agency that was supportive and where other members were committed and genuine. So I joined friends1st and  decided to take all the advice they offered. That included contacting Steve which I might not have done without their encouragement. The rest is history and we are thrilled to be married. It certainly worked for us.”

Now please Don’t take this opportunity if you’re thinking:

“I’ll give it a months trial”.

Remember the importance of having the right skills, not judging people too quickly, discovering character and above all else persevering.

None of that happens in one month. (OK it does for a tiny tiny percentage of people but not most!)

Yes you can join us for just one month…. And Yes you may meet Mr or Miss Perfect in your first set of profiles from us.

But it’s unlikely!

No this isn’t about a quick peek of who is on our books – because remember that behaviour is what superficial people display and does NOT help them find their soul mate. (You’ve done that on others sites and it didn’t work did it?).

This isn’t about numbers (though I’m confident you won’t lack those).

It’s about finding that person that is right for you,
that you can and will develop a wonderful relationship with,
whether that takes just one month or longer.

Perhaps you’re thinking:-

“It didn’t work last time….”

Then truthfully answer this question:

Did you put 100% of effort and commitment into the process – contacting over 50% of the people we sent you and taking on board at least some of our advice?

Did you?

You see when we ask most past members about this, we often hear:

“Oh no I didn’t – I wanted people to contact me so I didn’t make much effort to contact others”

or

“I just didn’t think anyone looked my type.”

And that’s the problem.

Trust us, so many of our happily married members would still be single now, still searching on dating sites and apps if they’d acted this way with this thinking. But they are now happily married. Dating for them is a thing of the past because they’ve found their soulmate.

Just to be clear….

If you join us again on this membership you’ll be paying £59 a month. You’ll get:

  • a set of profiles every month
  • a review your profile (to bring it up to date)
  • a review of your photographs with the option to change them
  • access to all our telephone support (both reactive and proactive)
  • an invitation to book a 15 minute dating coaching call
  • priority access to all our events (you’ll hear about them before people that are no longer members)
  • the choice of receiving other members profiles by post or through our amazing members only app
  • access to our app – even after your membership has ended so you can always contact people whose profiles we’ve sent you,
  • our Cloudnine magazine.

We look forward to welcoming you back.

By joining us on this membership you are starting a new monthly rolling contract with us for our membership services. You can cancel this contract at any time by giving us 30 days notice. Your membership (and payments) will continue until you give us (30 days) notice to end your contract.