A Personalised Dating Service
for Christian Men Looking for Love...
Meet a Like-Minded Christian
Woman and Find the Meaningful
Relationship You Were Created For

Say goodbye to the pain of online dating, and be connected with a
like-minded woman with the same Christian values as you. With our
personalised service and unparalleled support, you can make a genuine
connection with a woman who shares your beliefs.
I'M Ready To Meet My Soulmate
A Personalised Dating Service
for Christian Men Looking for Love…
Meet a like-Minded Christian
Woman and Find the Meaningful Relationship You Were Created For
Say goodbye to the pain of online dating, and be connected with a like-minded woman with the same Christian values as you. With our personalised service and unparalleled support, you can make a genuine connection with a woman who shares your beliefs.

1000’s

of Christians connected
across the UK

100’s

of members married

23+

Years
of experience

Founded by

an Award Winning
Dating Coach

Millions

Of
conversations

Are You Ready to Settle Down and Start a
Life Together With Someone Special?

As a Christian man with an active faith, this desire is natural. As you watch your
friendship group pairing up, you know you’re ready to begin finding your other half as well…
the one you can build a long and happy life with.

You’re searching for a young Christian woman who…

  • Shares some of your same interests so you can build a genuine friendship together
  • Is in a similar stage of life and looking for the same things as you
  • Shares the same Christian values as you and walks in those as part of her life
  • Trusts the Bible is the way to truth and abundant life, and recognises the importance of Christian marriage.
  • Is ready to date most likely with the intention of marriage in the future

RealTestimonies From Men in Love…

Please take my name off your books. I have struck up an excellent friendship with another member and want to develop that now. Thank you for your service. friendsfirst has worked out really well for me.

(Brian –37- Coventry)

I’ve met someone through friendsfirst and we’re getting on ‘great guns’. We have a strong bond between us and there’s a good bit of chemistry there – it’s a little bit more than just a friendship at the moment – thank you for your organisation – we are another success story for you.

(Simon – 39 –Salisbury)

I am writing to convey my personal thanks to you and your organisation friendsfirst for being the means that God has used to introduce myself to a girl called Jo. Our friendship has blossomed since I last wrote to you and we determined to keep it very much as friends first before officially deciding to ‘go out’. It is still early days in our relationship but we are overcoming the distance between us and I am hoping that we will get engaged next year. May I thank you for providing such an excellent service and may God continue to bless your work.

(Peter – 35 – Dewsbury)

Please will you cancel my membership to friendsfirst as I have recently met someone very special with whom I am building a strong relationship. Many thanks for your helpful, professional service.

(John – 35 – Bristol)

I believe I have met my soulmate through your agency! I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for supplying God with a vehicle in which people can meet friends and partners. It is such an important service, and I’m certain God will continue to bless it! Once again thank you!

(Peter – 34 – Birmingham)

But Meeting Your Soul Mate Rarely Happens
by Chance... and at Times, It Can Feel Impossible!

Have you experienced ANY of these challenges with your dating journey so far?

Are you tired of trawling through 1000s of profiles on dating apps that only offer a quick hook up or like and swipe?
And it’s frustrating not knowing if the people you’re matching with are as serious as you are, or if they’re just playing the field.
Are you constantly on the look-out for someone you’re attracted to every time you attend a Sunday service, Mass, Bible study or a church social?
And you’re worried that time is passing by too quickly, and you don’t want to miss your window to fall in love and start a family.
Does flirting, starting conversations, and going on dates feel unnatural to you?
And you wish you had some extra guidance from a real person (who is an experienced dating expert) to know what to say and how to act in order to leave a good first impression.
Do you struggle to meet women your age at your church who you actually have chemistry with?
And it feels as if your only options are your friend’s sisters (and exes!) who are firmly ‘off limits’, or the women members of your family introduce you to.
Do you dread the thought of yet another blind date that your matchmaker mates have set you up with?
And you feel like no one truly understands what you’re looking for in a soul mate and future wife, or why Christian values are important to you.
Have you tried (and failed) to meet your partner through countless so-called Christian dating apps, websites, and events?
And you just want to be put in touch with genuine Christian women who are serious about settling down and starting life together.

If you answered ‘YES’ to any of the questions above, or if you’re just ready to find the
Christian woman of your dreams, friendsfirst’s unique dating service can help.

We stand by the truth that as a Christian man, you don’t have to settle for less than a great
relationship that is Christ centered. Nor do you need to spend your life on your own.

At friendsfirst, We’re on a Mission to Make Meeting Like-Minded Christians Simple...

Using a Safe, Personalised and Reassuringly Traditional Approach You Can Trust

This is dating, but not as you know it. Say goodbye to dating websites and open-to-anyone apps. Rather, our hands-on service and supportive team of dating experts will connect you with Christian women without you having to rely on swipes and likes.

Our team has 21+ years of experience helping Christians form lifelong partnerships with their soulmates. We will be there to support you throughout your journey, and provide you with powerful resources, helpful coaching and expert advice, so you can find your partner for life sooner.

Find a Christian Woman That Ticks All the Boxes...
With a Dating Service That Does the Same

Receive unparalleled support as you navigate your dating journey, and find your life
partner. You’ll always have someone to turn to, whether you need advice on...

  • Setting up your profile with an authentic description and great pictures to represent the unique you
  • Discerning which women could be a good match for you, and who to reach out to for a chat
  • Getting prepared as you go on dates and interact with new people
  • Juggling more than one conversation at once with
    integrity and thought
  • ...or something else entirely!

Our team of dating experts will be on-call whenever you
need them to help you meet you soulmate.

How It Works?

Our proven process makes meeting your future partner simple, stress-free,
and is designed to be a genuinely great experience...

Step One

Book an obligation-free discovery call with
our team to discuss your hopes and dreams
for the future, and map out a
clear pathway forward for you.

Step Two

Partner with our team to build a profile
that captures your personality perfactly,
complete with a stunning professional photo
shoot.

Step Three

Receive exclusive resources that will equip
you with powerful dating tools from our
team's wealth of experience, and set you up
for success on your next (and hopefully last!)
first date.

Step Four

Sit back and leave the matching up to us
as we source and share profiles of Christian
women within your specified age criteria
looking for a serious relationship.

Step Five

Connect with anyone who stands out for
you,
and organise to meet face to face
knowing they have been vetted and screened
by the friendsfirst team.

Step Six

Tap into expert advice to help you navigate
your dates, and keep you accountable to
pursue the women you could have a strong
connection with.

Our Smart Matching
Philosophy Is What Makes
Our Members So Successful

When it comes to pairing you with your soulmate, we believe in giving you as much choice as possible. Our matching philosophy doesn’t follow the same guidelines as a typical filter might, or what your natural criteria for a woman may exclude. We’ll ensure you never miss out on an eligible partner who may be suitable for you.

You’ll be connected with a wide range of people that you could form a true connection with. Our in-depth, personalised profiles enable you to learn about your dates on a deeper level - from their passions, to their testimony, to their goals in life and faith.

After 21+ years of experience bringing people together, we’ve found that sometimes the most unlikely attractions form the best relationships! Find love from a place of discernment, keeping an open mind, and know that your potential partner is doing the same with you too.

See for Yourself theTestimonies From
Other Young Men Like You...

I am writing to you to convey the good news that Susie and I have become engaged after meeting through your organization. I wish to thank you as you were the means God used to put us in touch. We are so delighted and wanted to thank you personally.

(David – 32 – Croydon)

I am writing to tell you of some recent good news regarding someone I have met through your service. Her name is Natalie. We started corresponding through email and later met. Our friendship has developed into a strong relationship and we have fallen deeply in love with each other! We thought that you would be pleased to hear about this, and we are so thankful to God, and to you for running your service. I pray that it will continue to bring people together in the same way that it has us.

(David – 30 – Worthing)

I did nothing more than follow the advice in all your publications – send an e-mail, several phone calls, followed by an initial meeting. I count myself very lucky to have met someone who has become very special to me very quickly and to have met them through friendsfirst. I am very optimistic for the future.

(Lee – 38 - Loughton)

Please remove my details from books. I am currently going very steady with another of your members and we are very happy together. Thanks for your help, it’s the best money I’ve ever spent!

(Robert – 40 – Cambridge)

From the first set of profiles I met with Debbie and since then things have moved fast. We have continued to see each other and last November we got engaged and are to be married in October. Both of us know that we would not have met were it not for friendsfirst putting us in touch with each other. Joining was the best thing we’ve ever done. From the very beginning it was as though we were meant to be together, we seemed to click from the very first time we spoke to each other. Since that first meeting we have had many confirmations that our relationship is right for us. We have found your service invaluable and would certainly recommend others making contact with you. The profiles were extremely helpful in helping us know who we might contact. Thank you for your vision for friendsfirst. The fee has been the best investment of money we have both made. We hope that you continue to go from strength to strength. God bless you in your work

(Colin – 40 – Bath)

We’re the UK’s Largest Offline Christian Singles Community...

So What Sets usApart From the Rest?

We Prioritise Commitment

We’re 100% committed to helping you find love, and have created a community that fosters the same level of commitment. You won’t find ‘here today, gone tomorrow’ members on our books - just real, genuine Christians serious about finding their life partner now.

We Keep Our Members Accountable

Is there something holding you back from sending (or replying to) that first message, whatever the reason? We’ll give you a friendly push. Have you started a connection with someone, only to find they’ve gone MIA? We’ll reach out and get to the bottom of it. Our hands-on approach goes beyond the initial match to keep all our members accountable every step of the way.

We're Exclusively for Christians

Run by Christians for Christians, we put in the effort to only accept genuine, active believers as members. You can feel confident knowing you’ll meet someone with the same Christian values and beliefs as you. We vet all our members to ensure they have the right intentions just like you.

We Provide You With Helpful Resources

Our end game is always to help you meet your future soulmate! That’s why we go beyond introductions, and provide you with our world-class resources, education and coaching to help you succeed. As a member, you’ll also receive a 1-on-1 coaching call with our dating expert, whatever your starting point with us may be.

And most of all, we offer hands-on support that is unlike any other Christian dating service you’ll find.
Whether you need a quick answer to a simple question, help overcoming a problem, advice on navigating
a conversation, or some encouragement in your dating life...

Enjoy peace of mind knowing an experienced and caring
expert is always just a phone call away.

Meet Authentic Christians Who Are Always Who They Say They Are

Our personalised service allows us to vet every member within our friendsfirst community to ensure they are genuine, truthful and trustworthy. Say goodbye to the ups and downs of online dating with:

  • NO bad intentions.
    Know from the start that every person you connect with is a genuine Christian, and serious about finding a genuine relationship.
  • NO wasted time or distractions.
    Stay focused on your faith, and leave the heavy-lifting of connecting you with a potential partner up to us.
  • NO misleading photos.
    All members receive a professional photoshoot, so their profile pictures are bang up to date.
  • NO wasted conversations.
    Feel confident pursuing someone you’re interested in, knowing they’ve been screened for authenticity by our team.

Flexible Membership Options to Help You Meet
Your Soulmate Without the Guesswork

Silver

  • Handcrafted profile with up to 2 photos displayed
  • Professional photoshoot in your local area
  • New matches sent to you quarterly.
  • Dedicated 15-minute consultation with our in-house dating experts.
  • Personal phone support
  • Unlimited invitations to events and social meet-ups
  • Resources, books, and advice-emails tailored to your relationship stage right now
  • Access to view other member’s video profiles
  • Access to the exclusive Cloudnine Members Magazine
Gold
  • Handcrafted profile with up to 4 photos displayed
  • Professional photoshoot in your local area.
  • New matches sent to you bi-monthly.
  • Dedicated 30-minute consultation with our in-house dating experts.
  • Personal phone support
  • Unlimited invitations to events and social meet-ups
  • Resources, books, and advice-emails tailored to your relationship stage right now
  • Access to view other member’s video profiles, and add your own
  • Access to the exclusive Cloudnine Members Magazine
  • Plus

  • Personalised critiques and advice on your profile, pictures and correspondence with other members
  • Personalised friendsfirst email address for secure, incoming messages
  • Enhanced profile creation
  • A 6 month review and revamp of your profile
  • Access to our powerful ‘Finding Someone Special Toolkit’ resource.
Platinum
  • Handcrafted profile with up to 6 photos displayed.
  • Professional photoshoot in your local area.
  • New matches sent to you monthly.
  • Dedicated 60-minute consultation with our in-house dating experts.
  • Personal phone support
  • Unlimited invitations to events and social meet-ups
  • Resources, books, and advice-emails tailored to your relationship stage right now
  • Access to view other member’s video profiles, and add your own
  • Access to the exclusive Cloudnine Members Magazine
  • Plus

  • Personalised critiques and advice on your profile, pictures and correspondence with other members
  • Personalised friendsfirst email address for secure, incoming messages
  • Enhanced profile creation
  • A 6 month review and revamp of your profile
  • Access to our powerful ‘Finding Someone Special Toolkit’ resource.
  • Dedicated page featuring you in our Cloudnine membership magazine
  • Face-to-face membership set-up and coaching meeting
  • Access our ‘Open to God’ Prayer Resource

£527/Year

£49/mth*
*12 month commitment
£997/Year
£94/mth*
*12 month commitment
£2447/Year
£227/mth*
*12 month commitment

Looking for a Greater Level of
Customised
Dating Support?

Get In touch with our team to discuss whether our DIAMOND Membership is right for you! Receive access to all Platinum features, and experience a service that is 100% tailor.I to your exact requirements - whether you need individualised matchmaking, more regular coaching, national advertising on your behalf or any other such dating services.
* Prices upon request (from £5000)

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It'sTime to Begin the Next
Chapter of Your Life...

At friendsfirst, we believe that God’s kingdom is strengthened when like-minded Christians are brought
together to enjoy an abundant life together and share their faith journey. If you’re ready to find someone who
shares your values, your Christian faith, and loves you for who you are, then get in touch with our team today.
Meet your soulmate, fall in love, and live the life you were created for sooner.