Successful Membership Tips

Profile compatabilityProfile compatability

Profile compatability How to assess if someone is compatible with you based on reading their profile I’ve rarely met anyone who is capable of reserving judgement about someone they meet until they have truly got to know them. It seems that all of us do have a tendency...

Vegetables – An analogy about the sexesVegetables – An analogy about the sexes

Vegetables – An analogy about the sexes (An article for women only!) I’ve been wondering quite a lot recently why men and women approach dating so differently, and particularly why so many of the women on our books say there are no decent men ‘out there’ when I...

Who do you hang around with?Who do you hang around with?

Who you hang around with matters! There’s a saying I was taught a few years ago that goes: “Who you hang around with really matters” and over the years I’ve come to see how true it is. It’s based on the theory that the 5 people we spend...

 

Beauty and the BeastBeauty and the Beast

Could the fairy tale ‘Beauty and the Beast’ speak to you? To be honest I’m totally shocked at how the society we live in today judges people almost exclusively by pictures. Take Tinder for example – the smart phone dating app where you swipe left or right...

 

How busy are you really?How busy are you really?

How busy are you really? Quite often I talk to members who tell me how busy they are – and generally I hear this as part of a sentence where they are saying they haven’t contacted anyone, or can’t arrange to meet anyone, or don’t want to pick up the phone to a new...

 

The 7 Traits of Successful Members

The 7 traits of successful members Many people seem to think that joining a dating website, or introduction service is the quick-fix answer to sorting their desire to be in a loving relationship with another person. And for some people it is! But for most, it...