Making the most of membership


First impressions

First impressions

First impressions – they’re so important You probably know the saying: “You only have one chance to create a first impression” and you’ll know how true it is. First impressions count! So if you’ve only got one chance to make a first impression then shouldn’t you…


Vegetables – An analogy about the sexes

Vegetables – An analogy about the sexes

Vegetables – An analogy about the sexes (An article for women only!) I’ve been wondering quite a lot recently why men and women approach dating so differently, and particularly why so many of the women on our books say there are no decent men ‘out there’ when I…

 


Beauty and the Beast

Beauty and the Beast

Could the fairy tale ‘Beauty and the Beast’ speak to you? To be honest I’m totally shocked at how the society we live in today judges people almost exclusively by pictures. Take Tinder for example – the smart phone dating app where you swipe left or right…

 


Profile compatability

Profile compatability

Profile compatability How to assess if someone is compatible with you based on reading their profile I’ve rarely met anyone who is capable of reserving judgement about someone they meet until they have truly got to know them. It seems that all of us do have a tendency…


How busy are you really Part 2

How busy are you really Part 2

How are you spending your time? How busy are you really Part 2 I have previously written an article titled ‘How busy are you really?’ which struck a cord with a number of members who I’ve chatted to about it. But one of them was saying that time was an abstract…

 


How busy are you really?

How busy are you really?

How busy are you really? Quite often I talk to members who tell me how busy they are – and generally I hear this as part of a sentence where they are saying they haven’t contacted anyone, or can’t arrange to meet anyone, or don’t want to pick up the phone to a new…