Terms & Conditions
Please read our Terms & Conditions carefully. They will form the contract between us.
We know Terms & Conditions are boring but they exist to protect both parties and to ensure that all parties know exactly where they stand. So please take a few minutes to read these Terms & Conditions.
- These terms & conditions apply to all members and the services provided by friendsfirst. Please note that friendsfirst’s employees or agents are not authorised to make any representations in relation to the service/s provided by friendsfirst which exceed representations made in published friendsfirst literature including this website. Members should rely entirely on published literature/this website for the exact details of our service and the contract between us.
The object of membership of the friends1st Christian Dating and Introduction service is to allow paid up members the opportunity of gaining new friends. However because each member can choose whether or not to make contact, friendsfirst cannot guarantee any contact with other members. Further friendsfirst does not accept responsibility for any inaccuracies or misprints in any member’s profile. Each member is responsible for ensuring the information supplied is correct.
- Membership and Term
3.1 Membership is open to single Christians who are residents of the UK and Ireland only. To be eligible to join applicants should be Christian believers who associate themselves with a mainline Christian denomination. Membership of the friends1st Christian Dating service is for the purposes of meeting members of the opposite sex and is not open for same gender contact although it is recognised that friendships may be made between the same genders at social events/holidays. Completing an application form does not guarantee membership. Membership is provided once the application form has been assessed, the relevant proof of identification has been submitted, and both have been deemed suitable. Membership is entirely at friendsfirst discretion.
3.2 When you sign up for our membership you are signing up for a fixed fee. This fixed fee covers membership for a minimum term of 12 months. Membership (and this contract) begins from the date of the first payment made to friendsfirst for membership services. This contract length is fixed and is irrespective of what profiles a member is sent or who a member does or does not meet during this period. If a member does not wish their contract to be renewed at the end of the 12 month period, 30 days notice must be given prior to the end of the contract. If this notice has not been given then membership will be renewed on a monthly rolling contract. After the first 12 months membership term, membership will continue on a monthly rolling contract which can be ended by giving friendsfirst 30 days notice.
3.3 If a member:
3.3.1 terminates his or her membership during the 12 month minimum term, the member will remain liable for the outstanding costs of their 12 months membership and an early termination fee may also be charged.
3.4 The membership fee is payable either by a discounted single lump sum or by 12 monthly instalments paid in advance during the 12 month minimum term.
Members Christian Dating profiles will be kept on a computer data base and it is accepted by each member on membership that all his or her details may be released to other members except those details which the member has requested should be kept confidential. Should any member require that any data supplied be kept confidential then the member must specifically note this on their profile form. In the absence of any written request it is implied by each member that his or her personal details, except for their address, and telephone number (where specified), may be released to other members on request.
friendsfirst shall not be liable for any damage, injury or risk associated with, or caused by the actions of other members. Further friendsfirst shall not be liable for any misrepresentation or client errors or for any loss of data or profile details recorded incorrectly. friendsfirst shall not be liable for the acts or omissions of any members and members are entirely liable for the information they supply. As a member of friendsfirst you are responsible for the interaction you create with other members and friendsfirst shall not be liable for the consequences of any dispute, or any other event (whether arising from false or inaccurate information or any other cause) originating from or during interaction between members. At its discretion friendsfirst reserves the right to intervene in a dispute between members of friendsfirst, and on behalf of one or other member.
Admission as a member is not guaranteed and if friendsfirst decide to reject any application for membership a full refund will be provided if any monies have been paid. Member’s profile lists will only be sent to members following the membership fee having been received byfriendsfirst.
- Termination of Membership
7.1 friendsfirst may terminate the membership of a member if his or her membership fee has not been paid within 14 days after it became due. Should this occur all outstanding fees including membership fees will become immediately payable. A member whose membership is terminated for non-payment may be readmitted to membership upon payment of all arrears and any charges incurred by friendsfirst.
7.2 A member may terminate his or her membership at any time after the expiry of the 12 month minimum term by giving 30 days notice in writing.
If a member does not make payment of their due membership fees, friendsfirst will make reasonable steps to contact them -which may include telephoning, texting, emailing and/or contacting the member by letter. If friendsfirst has been unable to collect the outstanding fees from the member, then after 30 days of the payment being due, friendsfirst will send the member’s details to our solicitors for them to collect the full outstanding balance of membership fees owed by the member. Our solicitors charge a fee for their work to collect outstanding membership fees and this fee will be included in the balance that the member is liable for.
- Cessation of Membership
9.1 A member may cease to be a member of friendsfirst by:
9.1.1 Resignation of the member, which must be notified to friendsfirst in writing accompanied by all membership fees due to the end of the contract;
9.1.2 revocation, suspension or expulsion of the member by friendsfirst at any time during membership pursuant to clause 12 (and in this case no refunds will be given). Full membership fees will still be due.
9.2 For the avoidance of doubt, other than as detailed in clause 11.1, paid membership fees are non refundable.
- Right to cancel
10.1 You have the right to cancel your contract for membership within 14 days of your first payment without giving any reason. However if you have NOT asked us to delay your start date for the 14 day cooling off period or you HAVE requested to start your membership straight away and we have then Welcomed you, and / or have written up your personal Christian Dating profile in this time, and/or you have had your professional photoshoot arranged, and/or set up or undertaken your enhanced profile interview, then your right to cancel your membership under the Consumer Contracts Regulations still stand but you will be liable to pay for the cost of services already provided. This is because the regulations provide that any material that we produce for individual clients that is bespoke or personal to them (which your profile, photoshoot and enhanced profile are) constitutes an exception to the statutory right to cancel the order under the regulations.
10.2 If you feel you may want to change your mind within the 14 day cooling off period you should specifically request that we do not do any work on your behalf in the first 14 days. This will include receiving and adding your personal profile information to our ‘matching’ system, arranging for you to be seen by a professional photographer, our membership team telephoning you to welcome you to friends1st, sending out your welcome pack and membership information and anything else we normally do at the start of all Christian dating friendsfirst memberships. If you have not specifically requested that we do not do any of this, and any or all or this has been started or complete, you will be liable to cover our expenses which start from £200.
10.3 The cancellation period will expire after 14 days from the date of your first payment.
10.4 To exercise the right to cancel within 14 days of this contract starting, you must inform us of your decision to cancel by a clear statement (e.g a letter sent by post or an email) and we must not have written up your profile. You may use the model cancellation form provided here. If you’d like a copy of it please request this and we’ll send it to you. You may also cancel by speaking to us in person by telephone although we recommend you put your cancellation in writing so you have a copy of it. You may use the provided cancellation form (click here), but it is not obligatory. To meet the cancellation deadline, it is sufficient for you to send your communication concerning your exercise of the right to cancel before the 14 day cancellation period has expired.
- Effects of cancellation
11.1 If you exercise the right to cancel your contract for membership within the 14 day cooling off period and have explicitly asked us not to start your membership we will reimburse to you all payments received from you. We may make a deduction from the reimbursement for loss in value of any goods supplied, if the loss is the result of unnecessary handling by you; and you shall pay us an amount in proportion to what has been performed until you have communicated us your cancellation from this contract.
11.2 We will make the reimbursement without undue delay, and not later than –
a) 14 days after the day we receive back from you any goods supplied, or
b) (if earlier) 14 days after the day you provide evidence that you have returned the goods (your welcome pack), or
c) if no welcome pack has yet been supplied, 14 days after the day on which we are informed about your decision to cancel this contract.
We will make the reimbursement by cheque or bank transfer – you will not incur any fees as a result of the reimbursement. We may withhold reimbursement until we have received your welcome pack back from you or you have supplied evidence of having sent it back, whichever is the earliest.
11.3 You will send the welcome pack back to us without undue delay and in any event not later than 14 days from the day on which you communicate your cancellation from this contract to us. The deadline is met if you send back the goods before the period of 14 days has expired. You will have to bear the direct costs of returning the goods.
Membership of the friendsfirst Christian Dating and Introduction agency is conditional upon the member showing respect to other members and responsibility in all dealings with them. If a member breaches this condition or if friendsfirst has reasonable grounds for believing that a member represents a danger or threat to the safety of any other member,friendsfirst reserves the right to notify the relevant authorities, and to revoke membership without returning any paid membership fee. friendsfirst may reprimand, or suspend or expel from membership any member who is in breach of the above said terms and conditions or whose conduct (in the sole opinion and discretion of the proprietor), is prejudicial to the interests of friendsfirst or whose conduct renders him unfit for membership.
friendsfirst may vary the above Terms and Conditions upon reasonable notice.
In these rules references to the masculine include the feminine and where appropriate the singular the plural and the headings are for ease of reference only and are not to be taken into account in their interpretation.
If you would like to discuss anything in these Terms & Conditions which are not clear to you, please do contact us and we will be happy to discuss them with you.