Most people who join friendsfirst are looking to find a special soul mate, or a lifetime partner, or new friends….. and when you join we’ll do everything we can to help you achieve this.
But it’s important not to judge your membership on this alone. You are beginning a journey and like every journey we make in life, the journey changes us and we aren’t the same at the beginning as when we started.
You are going to learn things about yourself; and about others on this journey. That’s all for the good and this will have a lasting effect on your life irrespective of whether you find a soul mate straight away or in a while.
We’ll do our part as I said, in helping you to meet other people… but like in most aspects of life…. a large part of your success in this journey is down to you. It’d be easy to sit back at this point and say “Well I’ve joined friendsfirst….. it was a big step… now I’ll just wait and see what happens.”
If you take this approach, you could be waiting a long time.
Don’t do this!
Yes you’ve taken a big step, yes you’ve out layed some hard earned cash… but now you have to roll up your sleeves and get stuck in.
You may find this easy or hard… but whatever your feelings about it, do it anyway.
Get stuck in and keep getting stuck in.
This is your route to success.
And we wish you all the very best in it.