This weekend I’ve been reading a new book sent to us by an author to review and a note he has written touched me. It reminded me of how I felt about James when we first started to date, which was before I became a Christian. When friends asked me about him I could only say- ‘He shines’, which seemed quite a strange thing to say at the time. The author says ‘I personally do not consider looks to be an important attribute. Real beauty is on the inside. It is the God given inner light that really makes a person shine.’ Are you missing out because you are judging people by their photo or even worse not contacting people who haven’t got a photo on their profile? What have you got to lose by contacting people, meeting them as friends and giving them the chance to shine?