We are often asked how successful is friendsfirst?

General Comments about us and our service

“My membership is great. It’s going really well. It’s really helpful and I’m corresponding with a lot of people.” (Paul, 67 – Retired)

“Thank you. I do appreciate the tone of your communications.” Philip (54, Database Programmer)

“I had my first set of profiles 6 weeks ago in November (‘07) and I just wanted to give you some feedback. Things have gone fairly well for me, actually much better than I expected so I just wanted to thank you all and wish you a very Happy Christmas. When I joined I was absolutely terrified. I’d never done anything like this before and was concerned about my age. I determined I was going to use the opportunity well. The first phone call I made (following a letter I’d written) was amazing. I really felt I clicked with the man - we got on so well which really took me back. I hadn’t in fact taken much notice of his profile originally but when I went back to it, I saw that he did have some of the characteristics that I’d put down that I was looking for. It may well not go anywhere but I was surprised that I had such a positive first experience. I’ve had some really good conversations with others too and the whole thing has really helped. I don’t feel so isolated now and I feel so encouraged. I’ve found it so reassuring that the method of getting to talk to new people works so well.”  (Evelyn, 59 – Lecturer)

“The website is my kind of site, I found it very easy to use for a technophobe!!!” (Susan from Dorset)

"Hi Katharine and team, Just a short testomony from me. I found your website by accident, - I'm a new resident in the Surrey area with all the challenges as a single woman.I picked up a newsletter and saw your advert. Although I am not a member, your testonies gave me new insights which enriche my life. It made me realise that there are 100s of people where I live with questions about single life, that anything is possible in relationships and that there is a good God who is very much interested in meeting our needs. Before I was a bit desperate about my life situation, but your website has inspired me to rethink my own situation. I am now more happier and content and enjoying my life. I am a single psychiatrist, solving other peoples single issues all day, but reading through your testomonies, I have a new perspective on my own difficulties as a single woman and GODS way of bringing potencial soulmates together.
 
i appreciate all the success stories, it gave me fresh apprecaition on GODS way of working in our lives, I have a new zest for life and feel inspired and less troubled. Thank you. Blessings (dr anneline)

“Thank you again for the opportunities you offer Christians” (Anne, 52 - Pharmacy Technician)

“I am so impressed with your website. I think it’s absolutely amazing. I love the success stories – the way they are written is brilliant”  (Rachel, 60 - Local Govt officer)

“I’m absolutely delighted with this (friendsfirst) – we have nothing like this in Ireland.” (Sue, 57 -  Administrator)

“I’m not going to renew my membership this year due to financial/work commitments but please thank everyone for their time – I have very much enjoyed myself with your club.” (Amanda, 49 - Postal worker)

“The difference in the people you have is amazing. It’s a lovely class of people on your books. They are all so caring, loving people.   

(Noel – 57 Farmer)

“I was touched by Keith's testimony and the way God has used your site to bring him and his wife together, hence my decision to join your site”   (Philip, 48, Doctorate)

I have tried a couple of internet based networks but have found them either a complete waste of time, or a complete con I always thought friendsfirst was run in a really good way and I would definitely consider rejoining if it was open to people in my position – ie people living abroad.  (Jonathan, 37, Ecologist)

“Many thanks for your help and encouragement in joining me as a life-time member of friendsfirst”   (Janet, 72 – Teacher)

“Dear Katharine,  I want to thank you for your e mails and letters re friendsfirst.I have decided for the time being that my life is very full and interesting. I have a lot of friends in the work place and at home. I enjoy painting holidays, dance classes and singing in a choir. I have been single now for 10 years and am a much more confident person, so am happy to stop looking for another half as I feel complete in myself. You run a great organisation. Thank you again, Yours sincerely, (Carol, 64, Physiotherapist)

"I have been glad to meet a range of people – and have been shown respect, integrity and honesty by them all." (Gleyns - Teacher)

Overall my friendsfirst experience has been useful. I learnt quite a lot about myself. I have now met someone through other circles, and that relationship is developing. Thank you for your service. (Graham – 39 – Environmental Health Officer)

“I have been very grateful for the time I have been with friendsfirst and for all the profiles I’ve received.” (Dave, 41 – Porter)

 “Everyone I have met has been really genuine and really nice”   (Andrew, 34 – Teacher)

 “friendsfirst is a wonderful organisation, thank you for giving me the opportunity to join”   (Ian, 73 – Retired)

“I’ve just come back from your summer holiday in the Isle of Wight. It was such a beautiful place with beautiful views, and the activities they laid on were really excellent.” (Clive, 63 – Teacher)

“friendsfirst appears to be very professional and friendly, I’m very much looking forward to beginning my membership and resuming a positive social life.”              (Anne, 60, Retired)

'Thank you for sending me a copy of the 'Top Tips for making new friends and enjoying successful dating'. I appreciated the prompt response to my request for this book! I feel sure I shall find the book most useful. Although it is early days in my membership, I feel that I have joined a really caring organisation. Thank you again.'    (Margaret - 69 - RGN) 

"I must say I have met some very nice girls through friendsfirst , and feel that your organisation is very good. I have had a lot of contacts – say 20 or so in 3 months" (Douglas – 61 – Technical Sales Mgr)

"It has been a great joy to see your organisation grow from its very small beginnings into the successful venture it is today, and I am happy to have played a small part in that."

(The Reverend Canon Michael Blood – Radio WM Sunday morning breakfast presenter)

"I like all the information on the guidelines sheet. I know it is all really common sense, but good to have it pointed out and the importance of not waiting for someone to contact me. After all, you only get out of life what you put in! I am looking forward to receiving my first set of profiles and hope to make some new friends."(Jane – 62 – Library Assistant)

"Please renew my membership. I remain glad to be a member of your organisation."(Gordon – 47 Financial Advisor)