• putting yourself across in the best possible way

  "What a priviledge to read your book. It is really thorough and I am sure it will be of huge value to those already in friendsfirst and even more so to those taking their first steps."            (Kate - Devon)          " I found the guide very useful and it helped me understand some of the more 'tricky' aspects of dating this way, such as "Let someone down gently". I would highly recommend it." (Chris - Cheltenham)       "friendsfirst's 'Top tips' is very useful because well meaning advice to single people from happily married friends isn't always helpful. However learning from others in a similar situation is." (David - Yorkshire)       "The fact that the advice/tips is from members, about what did and didn't work is a big plus point." (Gill - Halifax)

• contacting someone else for the first time
• writing good and appealing letters
• responding to other people's contact
• meeting people for the first time
• Taking a friendship forward

It's an invaluable read if you are:-

• stepping out into the world of meeting new people,
• beginning to date for the first time
• coming back to the 'dating' scene 'the second time round'
• feeling nervous and unsure how to go about it all

You are welcome to purchase a copy if you are not a member of friendsfirst.