We are often asked how successful friendsfirst is?
If you judge success by the number of marriages we've had then we are very successful. And if you add in the numbers of people making new friends (which is what some people join for) then it's even better
For more details of couples stories
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Enquirers Newsletter April 2008
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friendsfirst's 14th Newsletter
Leaving things to God? April, 2008 - Issue 14
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| Dear Friends First, |
Welcome to friendsfirst's 14th newsletter.
In case you've missed our previous newsletters..... we are a Christian friendship organisation that assists single Christians to meet other single Christians for friendship and relationships.
We trust you will enjoy this newsletter,
With best wishes,
Katharine
Katharine Gray - Director, and the team at friendsfirst
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friendsfirst's NEWS
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We have moved! Our Head Office (where we process all memberships) is now near Stratford-upon-Avon and we now have a new address (see bottom of email). However if you have old literature from us and write to our Birmingham address it will still get to us.
Part of this expansion has involved the setting up of friendsfirst satellites. If you live in London, Manchester, Nottingham, Bristol or Glasgow then you may want to contact us using a local telephone number. These are as follows:
- London - 0207 100 1220
- Manchester - 0161 660 4535
- Nottingham - 0115 871 8704
- Bristol - 0117 911 4344
- Glasgow - 0141 530 9394
Kay - our Membership Manager - was 4 months pregnant when she came to us. She had her baby, a quite gorgeous little girl weighing 7lbs 7ozs, on 26th March. There's obviously something in the water here - as something major always seems to happen to our staff - whether that's marriage (we've had 3 so far) or babies (1)!
I guess this is not so surprising really - time moves on and people's lives change. Is your life changing too? Or are you a procrastinator or perhaps someone who just hopes something will just 'come along'. If so, then this newsletter is for you this month. Take action today - join us and make your life different. Click here to join us today.
Our most recent couple to get engaged are Jemima and Kian - both in their early 30s. We wish them a very happy wedding day.
Christine and Peter, a friendsfirst couple who got married last October recently sent us their story. It's a 'must-read' for men as it clearly shows how easy it can be to miss God's best for you if you are too picky. Lucky Peter didn't miss out, but it was a close run thing. More on being too choosy below.
We've added a new section to our website. Keep up with the news of our company and our staff on our News page. Click here to go directly there. |
Leaving things to God?
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"Prayer is an important part of my life and I know it works. So surely if God wants me to be married, he'll ensure I meet that special person - without having to join a singles group."
That was Gill's view in 2002 when friends persuaded her to join friendsfirst. She certainly didn't expect it to end in marriage. After all, God was sorting that out. But she was certainly looking to make more friends.
But sometimes God asks us to take the intiative and to step out in faith. Often when we do He answers our prayers in quite remarkable ways.
Gill and David married in December 2004 after a long friendship and courtship.
If you think God may want you to act so He can answer your prayers, join friendsfirst today
It all begins with a single call. Call our Membership Manager today on 0121 427 1286
To read more about David and Gill's story click here. |
Where are all the eligible men?
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You can't be a single Christian these days and not hear some debate about where all the eligible men are. And it doesn't matter if you are male or female. Recently I found a fascinating article on the internet and it gives an interesting perspective on the problem and certainly food for thought.
In "The Eligible-Bachelor Paradox," Mark Gimein explores what seems to be a shortage of available, attractive men. Gimein first points out that the woman controls the central decision when it comes to marriage. They are the ones who have the power to say "yes" or "no" to a proposal (or at an earlier stage, a date). Gimein then explains the paradox (more eligible women than men) in terms of an auction. Click here to read the remainder of this article. |
Is marriage a good deal?
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This exchange of letters from America about marriage was printed in The Week magazine. I hope you find it as interesting as I did. It certainly gives us food for thought.
To Craigslist, the New York online messageboard.
What am I doing wrong? I'm tired of beating around the bush. I'm a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I'm articulate and classy. I'm not from New York. I'm looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that - a million a year is middle-class in New York City, so I don't think I'm overreaching at all. Are there any guys who make $500,000 or more on this board? Any wives? Could you send me some tips? I dated a businessman who makes around $200,000 - $250,000. But that's where I seem to hit a roadblock. $250,000 won't get me to Central Park West. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker, and lives in Tribeca. She's not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. so what is she doing right? How do you rich guys decide on marriage vs just a girlfriend? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLY.
Anonymous
To Craigslist.
I qualify as a guy who fits your bill - I make more than $500,000 per year. Here's how I see it: Your offer is a plain and simple crappy business deal. What you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. Fine, simple. But here's the rub. Your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity - in fact, it is very likely that my income will increase, but it is an absolute certainty that you won't be getting any more beautiful? So, in economic terms, you are a depreciating asset. In Wall Street terms, we'd call you a trading position - not a buy and hold. It doesn't make good business sense to "buy you" (which is what you're asking) - so I'd rather lease. The deal that makes sense for me is dating, not marriage.
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| Looking for a summer holiday? |
Have you begun to think about what you might do this summer for a holiday break.? Are you on your own and wanting to go away with like minded friends?
Well if so, don't look any further than our summer holiday. Once again, for the 3rd year running, we've teamed up with St. Rhadagund's on the Isle of Wight to bring you a fantastic summer singles house party.
From 21st - 27th September, at £225 for half board with discounts available and NO single supplement, you should definitely consider this holiday before anything else. Click here for more details about this holiday on our website. |
| Do you commit any of the 7 Deadly Relationship Sins? |
It's not uncommon to think that other people are much better at making friends and find it much easier to attract partners? Just why is this?
Perhaps it's because of the way they interact with others. Perhaps it's because they know what works and avoid what doesn't.
Do you ever find yourself scowling at people inadvertently? Do you find it difficult to find interesting ways to talk to other people - to make them laugh and feel good about you? Do you know how to use favourable body language?
If the answers to these questions is Yes you need to read our 7 DEADLY RELATIONSHIP SINS guide. Click here for more information. |
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I hope you've enjoyed reading this newsletter and have found food for thought. We look forward to hearing from you.
With best wishes
Katharine
Katharine Gray friendsfirst Director
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